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SHOULD I

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Would you notice, should I disappear this minute? Would you think of her, should I go far away? Would you want him back, should I find my way far from you? Would you still love them, should I decide not to be a phenomena in your life? How can you give straight answers to all these before it becomes too late? I just needed to know. You should look into me and see that curiosity that was born by fear and slight hope. Look at me and see her, him and them all whom you should help bring to a consensus with themselves. Give them these answers because; you are the saviour of their sanity and I am a representation of everything you wish you had, but will never get.

THE ALPHA FEMALE

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Let me show you who she is, why most men fear to date her and what everyone needs to know about an Alpha female. 1. She is Bold, competitive, playful and interesting. She is the ultimate fantasy of every guy. 2. She is independent and does not need anyone to take care of her. 3. She is the type you call a career lady who would prefer to put 100% of herself into her career to reach the top. 4. Social conventions like marriage, traditional values and politics is what she completely rubbishes. 5. She is a power seeker and its only natural that she likes to talk about politics, games, social issues, business and law. 6. When she decides to date, she likes her relationship unhindered with lots of freedom. 7. She does not crawl around for a guy. She is not cheap. She has a class and won't lower her standard for any man no matter the love. 8. She knows how to walk away from relationships that are harmful. Not just romantic relationships but friendships, work contacts, etc 9. Eith...

RIGHT NOW

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Right now ; I feel like there are so many emotions welling up inside. I feel like I'm going to explode . I feel like there's nothing left; when all these are striped off Lots of things to say. Many unspoken words. Few written actions. I might just close up and wallow. I might just shut you out and hibernate. I might just be gone so far; you'd wish you could reach across distance. That's not all; You might just break at the peak of all these events. Most of all; You'd strive to have me back at that point. Bad thing is; I may not fit in anywhere; not even where I created.

PERFECT IMAGES

Emotions don't surge Feelings don't connect Words cannot explain Actions cannot display This person is stagnant in her life Contributing a lot but then so little outcome Connecting with only that perfect image within This person is indeed present in her life But how can she handle all it has come to be? Isn't it best to get that satisfaction and  move on? She'd eventually come to a consensus A consensus that puts the 'key' in place. This person is a whole lot more than he thinks She is her own Woman She is her principles She truly sways Now he cares enough to act like he doesn't Defence! It's the only cover he needs now, after he has been blown by her She takes everything in the environment like a hurricane A disciplined woman of grace and power Now that's the 'perfect image' He would rather not but not caring seems to put a 'spin' on things Bringing him and her to a consensus would be the birth of ...

THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT A SHY GIRL.

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1. Just because she's shy doesn't mean she's not  confident. Please don't mistake being shy for not being self-assured. She's confident in who she is and knows what she wants, even if she may not always appear that way. Chances are, she's always trying her best to radiate a more #boss- like persona, but in the meantime, CAN SHE LIVE?! 2. She's independent. She's never been the type of person who *needs* to be in a relationship, or even someone to go to dinner with. She's perfectly content on her own, thxvm. She knows what she wants in life and she's determined to make it happen. She isn't going to waste time in a relationship with someone who isn't as independent as she is. 3. She actually needs to be by herself occasionally. Maybe it's reading a book, maybe it's listening to her favorite album in its entirety. Whatever it is, that time is sacred and it recharges her soul , so don't question it. 4. It can b...

COMMENTING ISSUES!!!

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I sincerely apologise if you have been experiencing problems with commenting on any post on this blog. The issue is under observation and will soon be fixed. But please do not let that stop you from trying. I know say some of una get plenty crazy comments not to talk of slamming. So keep trying. Don't forget you're in the month of GRACE!  See you sweets around.

DEFINE ME 1

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Morning, Afternoon, Night Morning, Afternoon, Night And the cycle goes again and again It seems to have no ending. This thought no matter how hard i try, keeps wondering back into my mind My mind harbours this thought as it blossoms into a more excruciating phenomena I need it out of my head But what seems to hold on even longer turns out to be; That moment pleasantries were exchanged That moment there was a glimpse of smile That moment there was hope for a friendship That moment attachment was unavoidable That moment when all these came into play and many others stood long- in- line. What should be bearable is that they soothe the soul. But how often do these thoughts hurt that same soul? This is a point of being helpless. What would you define 'me' as? That person with; A life A personality A past A present A future. COURTESY: UGOKWE JOY CHISOM                  ...